If you're struggling with motivation lately—you’re not alone.
In perimenopause and menopause, hormonal shifts can leave even the most disciplined women feeling flat, scattered, and frustrated. Things that used to feel easy—working out, eating well, sticking to routines—suddenly feel like a battle.
But what if the problem isn’t you?
What if it’s the way your brain’s reward system is wired during this new season of life?
Enter: Gamifying your life.
Gamifying simply means turning everyday habits into a game—where you earn points, level up, and feel rewarded along the way.
It taps into your brain’s natural love of achievement, progress, and fun—and it can be a game-changer (literally!) for sticking to habits that support your changing body and mind.
Let’s dive into how you can gamify your life—especially during menopause—to feel more motivated, energised, and in control again.
Hormonal changes during menopause lower your dopamine levels—the neurotransmitter that fuels motivation and pleasure.
That’s why doing “hard things” like exercising, eating well, or breaking habits feels extra...well, hard.
By gamifying your habits, you recruit your brain’s reward pathways back into action. You get a mini dopamine hit when you hit a goal, unlock a level, or earn a reward—helping you stay consistent, even when motivation feels low.
Gamification = Progress + Play + Reward
...all the things your midlife brain craves right now.
Here are simple, effective ways to start:
Break your goal into three easy "levels"—each building on the last.
Example: Move More in Menopause
Level 1: Walk 15 minutes daily.
Level 2: Walk + add a 10-minute bodyweight workout (find a quick YouTube booty workout!).
Level 3: Walk + start strength training twice a week.
Every time you "level up," you celebrate. Your brain recognises progress—and progress is addictive in the best way.
✨ Start small. Celebrate each level as its own win.
Assign points to small daily actions that matter.
Aim for a certain number of points each week or month—and reward yourself when you hit it.
Example Points System:
🥾 10 points for walking 15+ minutes
✍️ 5 points for journaling
🌱 20 points for trying a new recipe or learning a new skill
🏋🏼♀️ 30 points for doing a workout session
Rewards:
100 points = new book
200 points = spa day
300 points = weekend getaway
✨ The key: make the actions meaningful, and the rewards something you truly look forward to.
Sometimes it’s not about the big wins—it’s about showing up daily.
Pick 3–5 micro-habits that will make the biggest difference for your hormones, energy, and mood.
Then check them off each day like a scorecard.
Ideas for Midlife Micro-Wins:
🌞 Morning sunlight exposure
👃🏼 5 minutes of nasal breathing
🥦 Eat a serve of cruciferous vegetables (like broccoli or cauliflower)
🚫 No added sugar for the day
🌻 Sprinkle seeds (flax, chia, pumpkin) on your meals
🍷 No alcohol today
✨ Each tiny action strengthens your body, sharpens your mind, and supports your transition beautifully.
You’re not lazy. You’re not failing.
You’re rewiring your brain—and your life—for the better.
Menopause isn’t the end of your vitality. It’s the beginning of a new game.
One where you set the rules.
One where you level up your strength, energy, and self-respect.
One where you win, every single day you show up.
If you're ready to stop feeling stuck and start building momentum in a way that actually works for you—I'm here to help.
📍 Book a free 20-minute Clarity Call with me.
Let’s map out a plan that feels light, doable, and aligned with your unique body and life right now.
✨ Check out Stronger in Midlife 12-week course here:
Because midlife isn’t the time to shrink—it’s the time to rise. 🌀💛
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